So, I’m in Arusha, and after my third try, I’ve finally found an internet cafe that seems to work ok. The screens are big, the internet works, and nothing is crashing. Yet. And things don’t take forever to load, just a few mins.
Got to Arusha yesterday after a 9 hour bus trip. Got up at 6 am for the 7 am bus. I got in the shower and after a few mins I heard a knock at my door. Wondering what was going on, I finished my shower and answered the door to be told that my bus has problems, so I was being put on another bus next door to the first one, but it was to leave at 6:30, not 7. So I had to rush to get to the bus in time, and forgot my Hasten’s travel pillow at the hotel! D’oh.
Luckily I had the hotels phone number and asked them to hold on to it for me until I get back.
On the bus I decided to take the seat behind my ticketed seat because it was much more comfortable, and the bus was quite empty. At the time. We then drove to the main bus terminal and waited for the bus to fill up completely, so I got a person sitting next to me. It wasn’t just a person though, it was two people; a big momma and her kid who was about 1 and a half, or 2 years old. Luckily the kid was quite quiet throughout the journey, but the size for the kids mom and the already African sized (read: small) seats meant I didn’t have much room for myself. Luckily I was smart enough to bring my own food and drink on the bus, but I didn’t know that we would be stopping at a restaurant on the way, which meant that there was no reason for me to have spend over 9 euro’s to make sandwiches for the bus. hehe. I didn’t even have to bring drinks as we were given soft drinks (I drank my first ever Fanta Orange on the bus), water, crackers and candies! Live and learn I guess.
Got to Arusha and found a place to stay. It is over-priced, but nice sized and breakfast is included. I walked around last night looking for an ATM as the B&B took all my cash. While walking around I bought some maize from a street vendor which was better than the maize I had in Dar the day before!
Speaking of the day before, it was spent mostly preparing for my trip to Arusha and setting up appointments for next week. (After finding more relevant organisations in Dar I’ve decided not to go to Dodoma, and am not even going to stay in Arusha until Tuesday as was my plan, but I will be going back to Dar on Monday.) On Wednesday I also went to the Dar es Salaam Institute of Technology, and was at a hospital to meet with someone there when a transformer exploded just outside. It was a CRAZY experience, as I was on my way upstairs to find my contact and I heard a funny noise outside. At first I thought it was a weed-wacker, but I couldn’t figure out why it was so loud…. and then I realised that there was no grass nearby! The staircase I was no had a window to outside, so I glanced through it and saw a whole lot of sparks coming from a telephone pole, and at the same time, heard a whole bunch of people running down the staircase towards me!
I turned around and ran downstairs as well, and got to the doors just as they started getting full of people. As I was trying to get outside the noise got louder, and the there was a HUGE bang from the transformer exploding, and then a power cable falling to the ground just outside the hospital property. This explosion visibly scared everyone as they all jumped in the air, and soon afterwards some people started screaming, others hollering, and still others crying. Walking around the hospital ground after this I realised there was no way I was going to be asking anyone anything… so I left, only to find out the power had gone out around the city. Fun!
Speaking of fun…. (yes, the theme of this post is connections…), last night when I was trying to find an internet cafe after getting some money, someone asked me for money. Now, I have made a point of not giving money to people who ask for it and offer nothing in return, but instead sometimes buy stuff from people selling things at the side of the road. If I were to give money to everyone that asked, I would be more poor than them!
So, this guy asked me for money, I said no. Then he started walking beside me, asking me for money again and again. I replied ‘no, sorry’ again, but this didn’t phase him and he asked for money again and again and I kept saying no. Annoyed, I started walking faster, so he did too. Then I looked around and pretended to cross the street, but he would just shadow me, just repeating his requests over and over. I hadn’t had that happen to be before, so I was wondering how to get rid of this guy, and started remembering what I had read about how Tanzanians don’t like people making scenes. I realised that I hadn’t been forceful enough towards him for me to suddenly make a scene, so I realised I should just try being forceful. I stopped in the middle of the sidewalk, close to another bystander, looked at the guy who was bothering me straight in the eyes, and said to him in a harsh voice, “Please leave me alone!”. As I was saying the words I was surprised at how determined my voice was, and also noticed I was using my hands to emphasise every syllable, something I haven’t really noticed myself do much before.
Well, it worked. As soon as the words were out of my mouth he looked around for a moment, said “ok”, turned around, and walked away. I was amazed, and quite relieved.
And today is Nov 14th.
I am many thousands of KM’sfrom everyone I know well, and it’s a bit lonely. I had put both of my phones beside me as I fell asleep (at 10:30!) last night, despite knowing that no one I really know has my Tanzanian phone number, and that most people probably won’t send any messages to my NL number because they probably assume I don’t have it around (and I don’t blame them). Even people I know in SA don’t have my Tanzanian number, and since the SA card is pre-pay, it won’t work here…
But, I did get a birthday e-mail from a friend in Vancouver two days ago, and I see I got some birthday wishes no facebook, but it’s not the same.
At the same time, I don’t particularly like my birthday, except as a reason to go out with friends.. but that’s difficult here. I did tell one person it was my birthday, a sales person, and she wished me happy birthday. Probably the only one I’ll hear this year…
Hmmm, I am not usually sentimental, except when it’s not there…. interesting.
Speaking of birthday, I’ve decided to give myself a Safari as a present. I had been thinking about it for a few weeks now, and decided today I really wanted to see what I could find.
This morning, after my meeting (which I had expected to be two separate meetings, but got merged into one as the two people work for the same organisation, just in different area’s), I went safari hunting.
I first started looking for all the ‘recomended’ budget safari operators which are discussed in my guidebook, but none had any tours I could join leaving tomorrow. I wanted to join a tour because some of the park fees are ‘per vehicle’ and I would have to pay for the tour guides all myself if I went alone. One place I went quoted me a price of $900 (US) for 3 days. Ouch.
Walking around to different places, the answer was always no, they couldn’t help me. This got me stressed and depressed. I realised I could maybe try at a backpackers and see if anyone was organising their own safari’s and wanted another person to join. The first place I went to has it’s own safari operator, so I asked them, and they said they had one leaving tomorrow, with 3 people between the ages of 23 and 35, and they were going for 3 days. I had realised that I wanted to only go for 2 days if possible, but would do 3 if I had to. I asked more and more questions about the trip, and after a while I was told that the 3 others had only signed up for 2 days to save money, and were going to ‘maybe’ do a third day. This made me really happy, and when the sales person said that when a Muzungu (white person) says ‘maybe’, she knows it means no. hehe.
So, tomorrow I am off for 2 days of camping Safari… the first day at a park close-by, and then the second day at Ngorogoro Crater, which is where I really wanted to go after all. I am happy, and I hope it goes well! I have no idea who the company is, if they are any good, or even legal, nor do I know who I am going with… that’s 1/2 the fun of it though!